Saturday, July 23, 2011

My boyfriend has changed A LOT.does he hate me? please help??!!?

Well my answer is very simple;If there is nothing in it then you won't mind not seeing her anywhere near where i stay okay? And if you do want to see her then let her keep you,feed you,love you,wash your clothes,do your ironing etc etc.(i think u get my drift)." ILL GET A CARD WHEN IM FU**ING READY" Well,that's okay,you'll make a meal or do his washing when you are f.....g ready! I'm afraid you are at the edge here darling. You have nothing to lose now but try this and if it doesn't work move out and leave him to it. But before that you need to be working from a position of strength. Find somewhere secure,semi-permanent and SAFE if this fails. That way,if it doesn't work out at least you have somewhere to go. Write him a letter,tell him EVERYTHING in the letter what you have said here,give him an ultimatum,tell him you love him to bits but the time has come for him to choose,tell him that you are prepared to move out for a couple of weeks and when you get back he can decide then.He may try and call your bluff,that's okay because you will have somewhere else to go,he won't know that so you have taken him by surprise. Hopefully,you will have given him a fright.if not and he gets on well without you then at least you tried and f...k him,there are thousands,no millions of decent guys out there who would be give their right arm to be in a relationship with such a kind and generous person such as you. Good luck and let us know how you got on.

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